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Saturday, May 29, 2004

Too much of a good thing...

This week I've been away from home again (I miss my flat!) staying with a guy called SP. His flat is lovely - as is he. On my first night there, he cooked me dinner, kept on refilling my glass with wine and we chatted all night into the early hours. I went to bed late, drunk and soaking wet. The thought of shagging SP made me end up playing with myself for a good hour and I eventually crashed out at 2am. Annoyingly I then had to be up at 5am for work, but it was worth it...

I thought about SP all day, imagining what it might be like if we had sex. When I got back that night, he had cooked dinner for me again and we ate, drank and flirted once more. SP then jumped in the shower and I did likewise a little later. Afterwards we sat on the couch wrapped in towels and our bodies touching. There was such heat between us, I knew it was only a matter of time.

We ended up having the most fantastic sex; SP is a very generous lover - gave me three climaxes before he came - a lovely change from B the selfish asshole. It was very enjoyable but my post-coital headache was dreadful and I only managed to get 3 hours sleep again - which with a 17 hour day to follow was a bit tough. But I had a big grin on my face all day.

I wish I could report that the situation with SP was all good, but I have some issues with it all:

1) SP is effectively my landlord for the next month or so. That we have shagged may kinda complicate things and make it uncomfortable for me to stay there.
2) I barely know SP. It felt kinda weird to jump into bed with him so quickly. Not that I have anything against one-night stands, but this one is different (see 3 below)
3) SP is much too intimate for my liking and it is scaring me slightly. He is all cuddles, caressing and massaging; he looks into my eyes and says "we're made for each other"; he asks me how my day was, kisses the top of my head and cooks me dinner. Now, this is all well and good, but we have just met each other - as far as I am concerned, he's a great shag and it's a bonus to get some sex from him whilst I am renting his room. He is an absolutely lovely guy and would probably make a fantastic boyfriend, but he is coming on way too strong for me...

Not sure what to do about SP, I am staying with him again next week. I may talk to him about it and be honest and hopefully he'll cool off a little. It'd be nice to have sex with him again but only if there are no strings attached...

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